Kink On Tap 12

Kink On Tap
Episode 12 "Androgyns, Anti-Androgens, and Girly Drinks"

Host(s): Maymay, Emma

Guest(s): Sinclair Sexsmith, Adisson Lee

Recorded: October 18, 2009

Published: October 20, 2009

Duration: 1:36:04

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Panel

• Maymay (@maymaym)
  • maybemaimed.com
• Emma (@helio_girl)
  • FollowsTheSun.com
• Sinclair Sexsmith
  • Sugarbutch Chronicles
• Adisson Lee
  • Genderfork.com

Follow ups

• Congratulations Mollena, Ms. SF Leather 2009 Winner!
• Its Embryonic Personhood, People: The Real Reason Behind Oklahoma HB 1595

Topics

• A Manifesto for Radical Masculinity | Carnal New York
• On Pronouns - Mine - Sugarbutch Chronicles
• Intersex Australians are Placed on a Sex Offenders Register… - OII Australia
• Attorney Uses “Boys Will Be Boys” Defense in Alleged Sexual Assault : The Curvature
• Rape Culture: A (ftm) Transexual Narrative
• Somali Islamists publicly whip women for wearing bras
• The 9 Most Badass Bible Verses | Cracked.com
• Sound Healing Network - Cymatics: Deciphering Dolphin Language with Picture Words
• The Associated Press: Interracial couple denied marriage license in La.
• Resist the Gay Marriage Agenda! « Queer Kids of Queer Parents Against Gay Marriage!
• Male Submission Art - soured by the notion that somehow marriage is in any way a legal right for anyone at all
• Who Rules The Social Web? | Information Is Beautiful
• Teenage sex study shock for parents | sexgenderbody
• Neutrois — Genderfork

Notable quotes

• "Raise our people like our people! Part of it is listening to the child and figuring out what the child wants to do and what the interests are, y'know? You got a little girl who's interested in monster trucks, don't buy her Barbies for Christmas. […] I feel like that's also separating gender from personality. So many of these gender role traits that we prescribe onto people—onto kids, and adults, but little kids—are just about our interests in the world and what we want to engage in."
  • -- Sinclair Sexsmith @ MP3 time mark
• "I get trapped in the [gender] binary often. It takes some cognitive effort to say, 'Oh, wait a second, that's not how it is for everybody.'" It's actually a construction of language as opposed to a construction of reality."
  • -- Maymay @ MP3 time mark

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