Kink On Tap
Episode 51
Wiki "Harmful Social Norms"

Host(s): Maymay, Emma

Guest(s): Brad Hanon, Susan Beaver

Recorded: July 25, 2010

Published: July 30, 2010

Duration: 1:36:22

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  • There's a big lesbian fan base for gay male porn: really counter-intuitive though that is. Iamcuriousblue @ 00:11:20 UTC
  • Lolita has artistic merit. It's too famous to deny that. New works are easy to classify as porn. GreysMatters @ 00:24:28 UTC
  • Australia has been *awful*: Proposing an Iranian/Chinese style firewall just to keep on top of porn. Iamcuriousblue @ 00:25:36 UTC
  • That's right, If you happen to be born with a small chest, anyone who is attracted to you is, by definition, deviant. GreyMatters @ 00:28:11 UTC
  • A lot of anti-Arab stuff is really institutionalized in Israel by the Gov. And frankly, there are a lot of pure anti-Arab bigots there, naturally. BlueGal @ 00:36:04 UTC
  • It's a matter of lying versus just not telling somebody your entire life story. Iamcuriousblue @ 00:42:19 UTC
  • And we can't always be protected, vigilance for self is the key, which they'd rather not teach - else we need not any longer depend on state action. FW: @00:43:37 UTC
  • Rape is assault, not fraud. rumiboy @ 00:48:29 UTC
  • Yep... one of my biggest complaints about the prostitution discussion, female desire is discounted completely. FW: @ 00:49:32 UTC
  • I trade sex for many things of value. From the value of love to the value of rent. FW: 00:52:02 UTC
  • We're encouraging complacency when it's not deserved. GreysMatters @ 00:59:18 UTC
  • Our world has been taken over by a secret organization, the Hall Monitors of America. rumiboy @ 01:00:28 UTC
  • God forbid they teach safe experimentation and responsible promiscuity. FW: @ 01:00:53 UTC
  • I think it's more a matter of sex trafficking equaling prostitution in many people's mind, but I don't have data to back it up. GreysMatters @ 01:06:13 UTC
  • I was amazed to read the ages of puberty in some countries with low nutrition. Like first menses at age 18, for example. Iamcuriousblue @ 01:21:39 UTC
  • With poor nutrition menses starts later. Well that and excessive hormones. hawk35 @ 01:23:20 UTC
  • Not all things should be respected just because its "part of the culture" Iamcuriousblue @ 01:26:44 UTC
  • Indeed, The actual finding of truth via the scientific method is always a complex give and take. BradHanon @ 01:33:34 UTC
  • But in cases like sex education and climate change, the evidence is overwhelmingly on one side. And that's when we're in Shut The Fuck Up, We Have Math territory. BradHanon @ 01:34:32 UTC
  • Good sense is, unfortunately, not common. Iamcuriousblue @ 01:34:49 UTC
  • The public thinks of one definition, and if research is using a totally different definition, the message is misleading. FW: @ 01:35:50 UTC
  • Yes, almost in a way the BDSM theories should be worked into early sex ed... so that it's not even sex ed, but human ed. FW: @ 01:45:41 UTC
  • At the same time, one of the attempts I've seen to institutionalize "affirmative consent" like the Antioch Codes are actually pretty disastrous. Iamcuriousblue @ 01:48:34 UTC

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